My musings: Love is the most beautiful emotion which I have experienced in my life- love from my mother, father, wife, kids. They have loved me selflessly and so have I…..I though do get confused at times…does love also mean being over possessive……when I see wife, getting close to a guy….I feel jealous….even though there may be nothing to it…..similarly when my wife sees me being over friendly with someone of the opposite sex…she does not like it….possessive nature I guess. But then one should be allowed his or her space….love should be unconditional….and one cannot become over bearing and demanding. As regards lust…here I am referring to lust for sex….and not meaning greed…..I think men lust for sex…whereas woman search for love in sex. For men sex is physical…for woman sex is emotional. Being a physical need men tend to stray……and then blame it on animal instincts.
Sex is something real beautiful…..and if handled maturely….is also the best stress buster. If some one is unfaithful…..it is the most hurting thing for the other partner…….rather than being unfaithful….no harm in indulging in a little bit of fantasy…..you can fantasise…..and role play…..at the same time be sincere to your partner. What say you? ANY ANSWERS
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